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An urban neighborhood's biggest fear is for its' safety, while a church in
that same neighborhood is concerned that they've become invisible. Now they're discovering
each otherand how they both can work together to reclaim the neighborhood.
Seven-year old Anna* looked around in wide-eyed
amazement at the inside of the big red building where she received her twice-weekly
reading lessons. She marveled at the long wooden seats that could fit so many people at
once. And she really liked eating lunch outsideright underneath the giant white
crosswhile she listened to her friend, Grady, read. But by far the coolest part was
the little room that was really high up and open to the floor below. "What's
that?" she asked Mary Hatton, her new reading teacher. "That's where the people
stand up and sing songs to God," replied Mary. "Oh, said Anna, missing the
loftiness of it allwell, can I go up there and play?"
Anna didn't know that the wooden seats were called pews and the raised open space was
called a choir loft. She didn't know, because except for being a flower girl at a wedding
once when she was five, this was the first time she had ever been inside a church.
Now Anna was finding out where those dressed up people she always saw went on Sunday
mornings. Like many of the people in this lower-middle class neighborhood of Tacoma, Washington, her parents
didn't go to church. But twice a weeklike clockworkAnna's father brought her
to Hope Lutheran where Mary Hatton, a church member and cook in the school system, helped
her improve her reading skills.
Anna liked going there.
It was fun picking out her own books and reading stories. She liked the people she
met there, too. Especially Pastor Stuhe was funny. She remembered what he told her
after she had come back from a weekend at the beach. She had swum right smack dab into
some slimy, creepy jellyfish and afterwards, decided to tell Pastor Stu about her
adventure. "Well, Anna," he said, "Why didn't you bring the jellyfish back
with you? Then, instead of the Lunchables you have every time you come, you could have a
peanut butter and jellyfish sandwich!" Anna giggled. She wished her parents could
meet Pastor Stu and the rest of her new friends. She decided to ask her mom and dad to
come to a big party that the church was putting on for the neighborhood. She hoped they'd
come.
When Anna's parents enrolled their daughter in Hope Lutheran's new reading program they
weren't thinking of it as a drug or crime-prevention program. They just wanted her to be
the best reader she could be. Yet statistics show that
Tacomaincluding Anna's neighborhoodhas one of the highest crime rates in the
nation. It was so bad that years ago, many members of Hope Lutheran moved out of the
neighborhood to escape both falling real estate values and from becoming victims of rising
drug-related crime. Whatever problems beset this community, in many of the member's minds
it was now someone else's problem.
But it's hard to ignore a statistic that comes home to roost. Especially when your church
home is in a neighborhood where the grade school reading level is below averageas a
result the odds are raised that some of those children will one day end up in prison. It's
not a spurious connection. Consider this: When the state of Washington begins to project
the need for prison space over X amount of years they do so by looking at one
statisticthe present reading level of 3rd graders. In other words, the greater the
problems that third graders have in reading, the more apt they are to end up in prison.
Hope Lutheran and their interim pastor, Stewart McDonald, would have never known about
that statistic were it not for two factors. First, a good percentage of the church went
through Percept's ReVision process. That, in turn, helped to open their eyes to what was
really going on within the area surrounding their church. Second, the president of the
congregation had what McDonald termed a "providential" meeting with a key player
in the community.
"Right after we had completed ReVision, the president of our congregation, Bill Rose,
went to a dinner where, seated next to him was a woman who worked for the Tacoma Urban
League," says Stewart McDonald. "Her name was Harriet Williams. And because
ReVision was fresh in Bill's mind, he started talking to Harriet about what it had done
for the church in terms of opening their eyes to the real needs of the community. Harriet,
who also happened to be a devoted Christian, responded to his story with an enthusiastic,
'Boy! I think I can help!' Within a few months, the church leadership had a meeting with
Harriet and, as a result, we have started two new ministries!"
Hope Lutheran is the first church in Tacoma to start this reading program. In addition,
the church is also beginning an accompanying
program called P.E.L.T, or Parent Education Leadership Training that teaches parents how
to interact with their children's schools. "How do you talk to teachers? What are
their responsibilities and what are yours? How do you talk to administrators? These are
the kinds of questions parents are taught to ask themselves," says McDonald.
"It's all about enhancing the whole relationship between students, parents and the
school so their children will have an improved educational outcome."
"Children are the heart of it all," believes long-time church member, Wayne
Campbell, a local business owner. Like many Hope Lutheran members he no longer lives in
the neighborhood. But that hasn't stopped him from getting involvedin fact, he's
probably the most involved of anyone. It is all the more amazing when you consider that
not too long ago, Wayne was one of the church's major blockers to change.
"I admit it. . .I resisted the pastor when he first came," says Wayne. "And
I carry a little weight around here because of my longevity. I was one of those who was
born, baptized and confirmed in the same church. Anyway, after the pastor came back from
the Community Church of Joy
conference in Arizona he started changing a few things. And I said, 'Whoa!' . . . what are
we doing here?! I am not comfortable with this. After the council meeting, where I sat
around the table spewing forth my objections, I went home so upset that I couldn't sleep
all night."
You could say that Campbell "fought the law and the law won"although in
this instance, it was really grace that won the case. Early the next morning he called
Pastor McDonald and apologized for his behavior. "Okay, I'm done,"
Campbell told McDonald. "I give upI'm on your side. I'm not going to fight you
anymore. We're going to work for the betterment of this church and I believe that is why
you are here."
The two men made peacethereby avoiding the Tacoma Campbell- McDonald clan war.
(Actually Wayne is part Native-Americana status that, by his own admission, made him
the only ethnic member of the church.) Wayne took it even further and apologized to the
whole council. He told them he didn't know what he was thinking because all he was doing
was trying to protect the old. But the old wasn't working so it was time to move forward.
What motivated Campbell to keep moving forward was more than just an
acknowledgment that "church as usual" was no longer working. He needed to have
both the biblical imperative and the hard facts of what was really going on with the
people outside their four walls. For Wayne, the ReVision
process not only opened his eyesit also enlarged his heart. His transformation
continued during the week he spent at the Community Church of Joy Conference on The Entrepreneurial
Churchthe same one that Pastor McDonald and Bill Rose had attended the year before.
Nine people from the church went down to the conference and all of them came back fired up
and ready to launch themselves into the community for the gospels sake. A big
emphases at the conference was prayerand, according to Wayne, they did a lot of it
while they were there. "I wasnt really a person who prayed a lot, but now I see
things differently. Now I truly believe that if Hope Lutheran is going to have its doors
open 10 years from now it will be the power of prayer that did it," says Campbell.
One of the statistics unearthed during the ReVision process had a particularly strong
impact on Waynefor three very personal reasons: The three young children who came to
live with him just over a year ago. Before that time he and his wife, both in their 50s,
had been childless. Nowafter gaining custody of their one grand-niece and two-grand
nephewsthey suddenly found themselves instant parents. "What we discovered
doing Revision was that there were a lot of single mothers
I mean in the back of your
head, you kind of know that, but when you see it on paper it just blows you away,"
says Wayne. "I think it was something like 60%! It was a rude awakening. I make good
money so were not struggling but it made me realize how expensive it is to have
children. I just couldnt imagine living on minimum wage and trying to raise them. So
my heart went out to these moms and their kids. All I could think was: What can we
do, how do we get them in here?"
Campbell's dream is to put a
gym in the church so that kids have someplace to go and parents will know they are safe.
When he thinks about helping the single moms he knows that financially speaking, they
are not a great source of potential revenue for the church. But he's determined to make
them feel that Hope Lutheran is their home. When asked how the church can afford to do
that he laughs, "Well, we'll just have to make it up in volumewe'll have
hundreds here. It will be just like McDonalds!"
Stewart McDonald would probably agree that the single moms in the community who struggle
with kids, poverty and self-esteem issues really do "deserve a break today." To
that end, the church has started up a few more outreach ministries including a weekly
Family Festival that targets not just single working moms, but two-parent families as
well. Every Tuesday the church provides an
ethnic dinner for anyone in the neighborhood who wants to come. The theme varies each
week. For an upcoming week, for example, they invited the chaplain from a local
Native-American tribe to come in and host a Salmon barbecue.
"This was yet another ministry that grew out of the ReVision study," says
McDonald. "I could have just come in here as an interim pastor and said, "Okay
folks, here is what you need to do: ABCD . . . now do it! And I might have had some
success, but not a lot. What these small group studies did was to help the members develop
a vision for the congregation themselves. They owned it . . . it was coming from them, not
this interim pastor that the bishop stuck in here for a year and a half."
Probably the most vivid example of the congregation owning the vision was the idea they
came up with to meet the neighborhood's expressed need to feel safe in their crime-ridden
neighborhood. Admittedly, when first learning of this need many of them balked saying,
"Well now wait a minute, the information says that the neighborhood has a concern for
safety and securitywe can't do anything about that! We can't organize neighborhood
groups, or patrol the streets or anything of that nature." But during ReVision's
small groups, many of the members realized that one thing that many Lutherans did well was
to show the gift of hospitality. That identification soon transitioned into the church
hosting a program called the National Night Out Block Party. Sponsored by a group called "Safe
Streets", this nationwide program provides an opportunity for neighbors to meet each
other and to organize their block with a view to lowering the incidents of drug-related
crimes.
"We are going to invite the police department inthe Drug Task Forceand
talk about how you deal with the presence of drugs in your neighborhood," says
McDonald. "How do you recognize a problem with your kids? Do you really know their
friends? We will have a whole series of classes that talk about safety and security and
how to reclaim the neighborhood. All of this has grown out of the ReVision study."
Hope Lutheran is recognizing that the most effective way to reach the community with the
gospel is to first demonstrate that they care about them as peopletheir concerns,
their fears and, for those who haven't given up on having any, their dreams. People are
more likely to hear what you have to say when you can fill their stomachs or help keep
their kids from falling prey to drug dealers. Or, for parents like Anna's mom and dad, you
can help give their child a chance to break the cycle of poverty that goes hand-in-hand
with poor reading skills.
Oh . . .and that Neighborhood Block Party? Anna's parents did come after all. They wanted
to personally thank the pastor for doing such a great job with their daughter. Not only
that, but about 40 more people from the neighborhood showed upmany of whom were
overheard saying things like, "Boy, this sure is a friendly church" . . .
"I feel really cared for here," . . . andwhat had to be Mozart to a
minister's ears"I think I'm going to come to church here." -Jenni
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